“See, I have refined you, though not as silver; I have tested you in the furnace of affliction.” (Isaiah 48:10)
By Ron Schmalz
Joining my first startup company was an exciting opportunity to work on an innovative product at the cutting edge of technology, which was related to my research in college. It was easy to demonstrate a willing heart in my new job because I was very passionate about the subject matter and how technology could be used to achieve powerful results.
This was an exciting time and I was focused on doing my part to ensure the company’s success. After more than two years of product development and releases, I became concerned about the company’s resolve to adapt our technology into another promising market. I also became quite discouraged. In retrospect, these concerns hardened my heart. I became so frustrated that I decided to leave the company without consulting God in prayer.
Had I taken the time to seek God’s will, I might have realized this was my first trial in the “Refiner’s Fire,” which was meant for my growth as noted in Isaiah 48:10. With God’s help, I was later blessed by a leadership coach who helped me see the power of empathy and kindness. She suggested more constructive ways to communicate during conflict. I carried forward three principles from that experience: 1) Presume positive motives, 2) Seek first to understand, 3) Tell the truth without judgment or blame. All made me a better leader.
Although living through the trials of the “Refiner’s Fire” can be challenging, these are times God is calling us to step out of our comfort zones and experience the growth we truly need. By cooperating, he pours out manifold graces to reveal his plan for our lives.
Pray
Jesus, help us trust in you that we might find comfort in your merciful love by recalling the words of James 1:2-4: “Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”
Reflect
Create in us Lord, a willing heart, open to the whisper of your still quiet voice and strengthen us to persevere in our trials.
Discuss
Share about how hardness of heart prevented you from treating your coworkers with compassion and generosity.
Ron Schmalz is past president of the Santa Cruz Chapter in California, and lives in Tolland, Connecticut. He and his wife Terri enjoy traveling and spending time with family.