“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters …” (Colossians 3:23)
By Annette Lambert
Early in my career, I was inspired and enthusiastic about building a work life with the Sierra National Forest.
I began working in the entry level forestry technician series, and through the years, worked my way up into the senior level professional series. At that time, the forest recreation officer told me that I was qualified to serve at the forest-level lands officer position. I was really excited about finally being able to get a promotion that I felt I earned through all my hard work, efforts, and loyalty.
Time passed with no mention of any promotion, and then I learned that the position I sought was already filled, and I would be asked to train the new person. I felt betrayed, sad, and resentful. I had been duped!
But somehow, God softened my heart. He told me not to take out my anger on the new person, but instead, help him learn how to do his job. He was very eager to learn, and we had many fun field trips to the forest.
Eventually, I was able to let go of the anger toward the forest recreation officer. The Holy Spirit was surely involved, because I never would have been able to do this on my own. My transformation was an example of the “Shattered Vase” theory, a metaphor developed by psychologist Stephen Joseph. This theory suggests that after a shattering event, individuals can rebuild and emerge stronger by accepting the changes rather than trying to restore the past.
By cultivating a mindset of gratitude and acceptance, we can learn to find purpose in the midst of chaos and change. God can transform even the most broken and shattered pieces into something truly extraordinary as the Lord did for me.
Pray
Dear Lord, help us to pray for the fruit of the Holy Spirit. These gifts bring us empowerment to help us make decisions and choices for the Lord rather than for ourselves.
Reflect
Examine your actions, motivation, and prayer life. Then pray this prayer, “Heavenly Father, show me how I can be remade stronger whenever I face challenges, suffering, and disappointments.”
Discuss
The fruit of the Spirit are: Love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. What are some situations in your own life that demonstrate you are choosing the fruits of the Spirit over desires of the flesh?
Annette Lambert is a retired natural resource manager. She volunteers as a Stephen Minister at her church and is a member of the WorkLight Fresno Women’s Chapter.